new ventures

some say change is scary. i agree. only because of the uncertainty of the --what now? that comes afterwards.

change... a better job or promotion is great but will you like it afterward?

when you look forward to something you build it up pretty high. you obsess about how you will feel later. you make wishes and have hopes.

when making new friends or rekindling with old -- will it be the same? you can only hope so! try to avoid the bad stuff.

move forward, be selfish, be honest, be true to yourself. as Oscar Wilde once said, "be yourself. everyone else is taken." that is the only way that you will be okay no matter what the result. you always have yourself. you know how to make yourself happy, but remember you have to look yourself in the face every morning.